{"id":608,"date":"2020-12-31T15:07:13","date_gmt":"2020-12-31T12:07:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yinemedia.com\/zapsu\/?p=608"},"modified":"2021-07-27T15:44:08","modified_gmt":"2021-07-27T12:44:08","slug":"cuneyd-zapsudan-2021-temennisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/cuneyd-zapsudan-2021-temennisi\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuneyd Zapsu&#8217;dan 2021 Temennisi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\">31 Aral\u0131k 2020<\/p>\n<p><strong>2021 senesi i\u00e7in temenni:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">DSO\u2019nun ba\u015f\u0131ndaki beyefendiden -her <strong>liderin olmas\u0131 laz\u0131m geldi\u011fi gibi- moral ve \u015fevk verici <\/strong>olmas\u0131 beklenirken, kendisi tutup yeni sene hediyesi olarak \u201cdaha bu bir \u015fey de\u011fil, \u00e7ok daha k\u00f6t\u00fcleri gelecek\u201d diyebiliyor\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">B\u00f6yle bir d\u00fcnyada, daha \u00f6nce de anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m gibi, Covid, en b\u00fcy\u00fck bedelini s\u00fcratle almaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Zaten uzun s\u00fcredir bozulmaya y\u00fcz tutmu\u015f <strong>Ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bozuldu, ve bozulmaya da devam ediyor. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Haberlere bakmak dahi i\u00e7imden gelmiyor. <strong>Cinnet, Cinayet, \u00e7o\u011funlukla da daha az kar\u015f\u0131 koyabilen cinse kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddet\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00dc\u00e7 d\u00fcnya g\u00fczeli k\u0131z evlad\u0131 ve onlardan da g\u00fczel -\u015fimdilik-\u00fc\u00e7 k\u0131z torun (damatlar ve 3 de erkek torunumu bu kez de\u011fi\u015fiklik olsun diye ba\u015fta saymad\u0131m) mesuliyetini s\u0131rtlanarak <strong>2021\u2019e girerken bilhassa cinsiyete dayal\u0131 \u015fiddet olaylar\u0131na dikkatinizi \u00e7ekmek isterim. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cT\u00fcrklerde olmaz Yunan\u2019da olur\u201d \u2013 veya tersi, veya ba\u015fka \u0131rk\u00e7\u0131 s\u00f6ylemler&#8230;, ya da \u201cM\u00fcsl\u00fcman yapmaz\u201d \u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">bir dakika, M\u00fcsl\u00fcman yapmaz evet de\u2026 <strong>M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sadece ibadet san\u0131p, g\u00f6steri\u015fli namaza indirgemi\u015f olup, iman\u0131n asl\u0131n\u0131n sevgi oldu\u011funu hi\u00e7 \u00f6\u011frenememi\u015fler, cidden M\u00fcsl\u00fcman m\u0131 say\u0131lacak?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">DAES\u2019e sorsan onlar da kendini M\u00fcsl\u00fcman sanmakta veya <strong>kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6v\u00fcp, hatta \u00f6ld\u00fcren, sonra da \u201cnamusumu temizledim\u201d deyip belki de Cumaya gidene g\u00f6re? \u201cElhamd\u00fclillah M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131m\u201d\u2026 \u00d6yle mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">K\u0131zg\u0131n\u0131m\u2026 \u00dczg\u00fcn\u00fcm\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Hutbelerde bu durumun k\u00f6k\u00fcne kadar inmeyip bir yerden gelen direktifleri okuyanlara da k\u0131zg\u0131n\u0131m!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Hi\u00e7 mi canlar\u0131 yanm\u0131yor? \u0130\u00e7leri ac\u0131m\u0131yor? (Yapanlar haklar\u0131n\u0131 helal etsin).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Elimizde muhtesem bir din ve onu tebli\u011f eden zat\u0131n hayat\u0131 dururken, Mevlana, Yunus, Tasavvuf gibi sevginin asl\u0131 varken\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Sevgi\u2026 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">L\u00fctfen bunu i\u015fleyelim, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n nas\u0131l e\u011fitilmesi laz\u0131m geldi\u011fini anlatal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Kendini sevmeyen, sevgisiz olan, nas\u0131l sevgi verebilir? Sevgi almam\u0131\u015f olan nas\u0131l sevgi geli\u015ftirsin? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Sevgisiz, tamamen Algoritma, yani mant\u0131k \u00fczerine \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flayan bir d\u00fcnya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na girdik bile. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Bu y\u00fczden dini telkinin korkutucu de\u011fil, en b\u00fcy\u00fck eksik olan \u201csevgi\u201d \u00fczerine olmas\u0131 laz\u0131m geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Bir \u0131rk di\u011ferinden iyi veya k\u00f6t\u00fc olamaz. \u0130nsan insand\u0131r! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Bana g\u00f6re siyasetin elindeki t\u00fcm imk\u00e2n\u0131 acilen bu y\u00f6ne kayd\u0131rmas\u0131 gerekir, tabii ki alt yap\u0131, yollar vs ekonomik kalk\u0131nma i\u00e7in \u015fart \u2013 ancak ruhumuz, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, sevgimiz gitti, gidiyor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Etraf\u0131m\u0131z <strong>insan gibi g\u00f6z\u00fck\u00fcp ama i\u00e7i insan olmayan \u201cinsans\u0131\u201d<\/strong>larla doldu ta\u015ft\u0131. Sizler bu olu\u015fumu g\u00f6remiyor musunuz? Bilhassa Covid gibi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, insanlar s\u00fcr\u00fc i\u00e7inde kaybolmay\u0131p tek ba\u015flar\u0131na kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu durum daha da belirgin olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmakta\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Ne mi yap\u0131lmal\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">E\u011fitimsiz ebeveyn, k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funu hor g\u00f6r\u00fcp, erkek evlad\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6klere \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r &#8211; veya tam tersi erke\u011fe (hayat boyu yara b\u0131rakacak \u015fekilde) k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131rsa, bu \u00e7ocuklardan ileride kar\u015f\u0131 cinse gerekti\u011fi gibi davranmas\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l bekleyebiliriz?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ayr\u0131ca as\u0131l <strong>dinimizin hakikatini<\/strong> \u00f6\u011frenmemi\u015f, bilmeyen, Resul\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn hayat\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l ibret als\u0131n da, buna g\u00f6re evlat yeti\u015ftirsin?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcme g\u00f6re be\u011fenmedi\u011fimiz \u00f6nceki jenerasyonlar, yani annelerimiz, dedelerimizden bu yana insans\u0131lar gittik\u00e7e artm\u0131\u015f, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc <strong>INSAN olma e\u011fitimimiz yolda kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Dini e\u011fitim dahil t\u00fcm e\u011fitim sistemimiz insan olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmeye daha fazla y\u00f6nelmelidir<\/strong>. Bunun i\u00e7in acilen \u00f6zel programlar yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r, hocalar yeti\u015ftirilmeli, m\u00fcfredatlara konmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ben ne siyaset\u00e7i ne de e\u011fitimciyim, ancak temenni edebilirim\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Her zaman dil \u00f6\u011frenimine \u00f6nem veren biri oldum, ancak bug\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm dil \u00f6\u011frenimine yeni d\u00fcnyada gerek olmayacak.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Teknoloji icab\u0131na bakmaya ba\u015flad\u0131 bile\u2026 Ve g\u00f6receksiniz \u015fu an okula ba\u015flayanlar bile bu y\u00f6nde 3-5 seneye kadar \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 e\u011fitilecekler\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Tabii ki \u201chakiki dili bilme\u201d ile \u201cterc\u00fcme\u201d aras\u0131nda \u00e7ok fark var. Dil bilme, o dilde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilmeyi, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc anlamay\u0131 da getirir \u2013 bu do\u011frudur, <strong>Dil \u00f6\u011frenimi hala \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131makta ancak b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6ncelik INSAN olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek, \u00f6\u011fretebilmektir art\u0131k<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan olmay\u0131 kimse, hi\u00e7 bir teknoloji, hi\u00e7bir AI \u00f6\u011fretmiyor, tam tersine bug\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan ileri giden AI yeni teknolojileri buna g\u00f6re geli\u015ftiriyor\u2026 ileride INSAN olma kalmayacak ve ben buna uzun s\u00fcredir dikkat \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>E\u011fitim sistemi\u2026 ba\u015fka?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Dikkatinizi mutlaka \u00e7ekmi\u015ftir, ba\u015f\u0131na k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey gelen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck k\u0131zlar, han\u0131mlar\u2026 Bazen b\u0131rak\u0131n hi\u00e7 bir \u015fekilde empatisi olmayan Savc\u0131larla, ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6nceden bahsetmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m de\u011ferleri geli\u015fmemi\u015f Avukatlar ile muhatap olma durumundalar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Avukat, Savc\u0131 ve Hakimlerimiz de tabii ki toplumumuzdaki bu noksan\u0131n, hatta bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n birer aynas\u0131d\u0131r. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>E\u011fitim ve Siyasi y\u00f6nlendirme bu konuda \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k ve gerekirse sert olmal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Mevzuyu i\u015fleyen Medya Mensuplar\u0131 da bu ma\u011fdurlara yap\u0131lanlar\u0131n bilin\u00e7li veya bilin\u00e7siz b\u00fcy\u00fck par\u00e7as\u0131 olmaktad\u0131r. Haber sistemati\u011fi de \u201ckoruma\u201d \u00fczerine olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Unutmayal\u0131m:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>As\u0131l halen Annedir. Anne nas\u0131l e\u011fitildiyse, nas\u0131l g\u00f6rd\u00fcyse erkek veya k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funu o \u015fekilde b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr. \u015eiddet uygulayan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n da Anneleri vard\u0131r!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Bu biraz uzun yeni sene temennimi sonuna kadar okuyanlara te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederken, 2021\u2019de bu konuya biraz daha fazla e\u011filinmesini \u00fcmit ediyorum<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 kal\u0131n, sevgilerimle<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Cuneyd Zapsu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>31 Aral\u0131k 2020 2021 senesi i\u00e7in temenni: DSO\u2019nun ba\u015f\u0131ndaki beyefendiden -her liderin olmas\u0131 laz\u0131m geldi\u011fi gibi- moral ve \u015fevk verici olmas\u0131 beklenirken, kendisi tutup yeni sene<span class=\"excerpt-hellip\"> [\u2026]<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-608","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/608","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=608"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/608\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=608"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=608"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.czapsu.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=608"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}